Ugly people have feelings too.. (Let's Talk!)

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" (phrase); one person that finds beauty or admiration may not have the same appealing to another person. Beauty doesn't exist on its own but is created by observers. So riddle me this "UGLY PEOPLE HAVE FEELINGS TOO," the way your brain functions this can go one or two courses in a general statement which can imply multiple elements as a whole or over your head with misconception. I'm not explicitly addressing appearance, but your frame of mind can contribute to an ugly trait. The way you behave, especially how one speaks, body language, facial expressions, grooming, and mannerism, convey one's opinion concerning oneself. You can be the prettiest girl or the most attractive guy globally, the way you carry yourself is what people will remember. Like Maya Angelou once stated, "I walk like I've got oil wells pumping in my living room'. You can appear to be the happiest person on the exterior but inside ugly troubling ways.

You can enter the room and be in the best dress, and your conversation will go a mile longer than your appearance will. That's why I disagree with the catchy phrase "First impressions are the worst impression" example of two people you'll meet:

PERSON A: She's beautiful popular with an hourglass shape, funny, witty, and high in energy. When she steps into a room, she grabs everyone's attention. Her high sadistic ways cause her to mishandle people; she stays at home with her strict parents, and she only feels free-spirited out with strangers that don't know her well. Living the luxury life is what she focus on, with no potential goals for growth. An extrovert is what society would call her.

PERSON B: He's quiet, passive; when he converses, no eye contact is ever made, his everyday attire is a black vintage KISS shirt, ripped jeans with tarnished Chuck Taylor's. When he steps into a room full of people, his social anxiety silently kicks in. No one acknowledges him to get a better understanding of why he's quiet, etc. There busy judging his exterior; unaware that when they shop there paying him. He owns a stock company.

You might have such different impressions of these two people when it comes to forming the first impression. You have to distinguish between the processes of "knowing" vs. "liking."

You have to treat the janitor with the same respect as the CEO. We are our own most prominent critics. As I stated in my previous blog, "My looks are innocent, but my mind is guilty" (http://www.nubianbeautique.org) 'Your first impressions are the worst impressions' I solemnly disagree. I don't believe in it; appearance shouldn't be the primary concern. Learning and studying the following individual's mind, we must confine in. The way a human thinks should be most important rather than the image they portray. Overthinking can be decisive rather than irrational or rationale for making decisions. The mind controls what the heart doesn't. The reason I state that because we will follow the mind instead of the heart.

Always be the best you can be instead of being more concern about appearance, verbal conversation, or the way you contribute to other's happiness. We're all "Fearfully and wonderfully made," which means God intimately knows every person, and all humanity belongs to Him. So in all actuality, nobody is ugly. It is just a feeling we humans accumulate. Who are we to tell the following individual or categorize people by beauty, its only superficial. It would be best if you judged people on the content of their character.

Humans subconsciously attribute positive characteristics, such as intelligence and honesty, to physically attractive people. Ugly people have feelings, too, right?

Giving my readers Peace and love.

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