My looks are innocent but my. mind is guilty !

Your mind is a terrible thing to waste but yet your worst enemy. If not control correctly, you can maneuver in the wrong direction. It's a saying in life, "ONLY THE STRONG SURVIVE" being physically healthy is not the objective but managing the mind mentally in different scenarios is the main focus. Life is like a chess game; if you move the wrong way, you will have a problem without a solution (LOCKED BOARD!) The only way out is to improve your thoughts, regroup your decision-making skills, and be patient. You can simplify life by exchanging the way you think. Thinking productive, you will gain a positive outcome and vice versa. The majority of the time, we are our own most prominent critics. We are constantly beating ourselves up because we envision the potential within us, but the fear of failure continues to intervene. Our mind is powerful beyond measures. Consciousness can righteously drive us, but our curiosity wants to know what will occur if I go this way. Which question do you ask yourself? Do you instead consider tactics or strategies? Everything comes from the mind's decision,

and if you can't control that, you can't manage anything. You can lose a million times; however, you'll have a million different ways not to proceed in the same direction. Gathering thoughts to make the correct decision can be crucial. Being under pressure can continually make you lose yourself by wondering the 5 W's and

How strategies.

Who bearing a hand?

What's the next phase?

When will it be done?

Where would it conclude?

Why is this occurring?

How will I finalize it?

When you over-analyze things, it will take control of the mind. Your heart and mind are continuously at an all-time battle in your head. Are you making the right decision that can help you proceed in the long run? That's why the statement 'Your first impressions are the worst impressions' I don't believe in; appearance shouldn't be the primary concern. Learning and studying the next individual's mind, we must confine in. The way a human thinks should be most important rather than the image they portray. Overthinking can be decisive rather than irrational or rational for making decisions. The mind controls what the heart doesn't. The reason I state that because we will follow the mind instead of the heart. We win some as well as we lose some, yet we live to think for another day. (So FRIDAY LOL) Deep down inside, we can get hurt to the core, yet we continue to believe it's okay instead of following the heart. Mental health takes a toll on all people either it is detected or not. We judge others based on our beliefs within ourselves. Sometimes, we are compromising; it is not always settling because you can learn from all walks of life. Albert Einstein once said, "I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university." because the garbage man may be more mentally stronger than the president of the university since he's dealing with filth all day. He can teach you how he takes short cuts to life so that he won't dwell on the fact that it is garbage.

Can you catch my drift? LOL. Life will throw many curveballs. You must know how to dodge them the the first time, the second time they come your way, juggle them, but the third time tosses them back full force. Use tumbling blocks as a stepping stone to reach your highest potential. Don't wrestle with your brain; go with the first thought, and most of the time, it's the best decision. If not, continue until you make it right; we have million more days ahead of us to get it right with ourselves. We owe it to our minds, bodies, and spirits to live freely without caring what tomorrow will bring. Accept life for what it is; being blissful will attract happiness, free your mind, enjoy life, eat right, drink tea, live for yourself, and mind the business that pays you. What you allow is what will continue—giving my readers Peace and love.

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